A Father’s Reflection


Early in life, I recall reading an article entitled, Regret Reduction.  The author, probably an older gentleman whom I do not recall, recommended that his readers consider this as a life goal.  Life tends to be full of opportunities to pile on regrets even among the best of men, so be wise to avoid as many of those “opportunities” as possible.

Solomon provides a game plan in Proverbs 3:

Strategies:

My son, do not forget my teaching,
but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you;
bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones.

Honor the LORD with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops; then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.

My son, do not despise the LORD’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves,
as a father the son he delights in.

Rewards:

Blessed is the man who finds wisdom, the man who gains understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold.

She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor.

Her ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to those who embrace her; those who lay hold of her will be blessed. Proverbs 31:1-8 NIV

In my readings this morning, I wondered why I had given so much of my life to other studies and instruction.  Talking about truth in a nutshell!

About John Bost

John and his wife LaDonna have lived in Clemmons for over 16 years, along with one daughter, Summer Elizabeth Bost, who is now an Assistant Principal with the WSFC Schools. John and LaDonna have a combined service as well, of over 60 years in public and private education. John holds a Bachelor of Science (BS) degree in Biology, a Master of Arts (MA) degree in Community Education & Resource Development as well as an Education Specialist Degree (Ed.S) in Leadership & Administration, all from Appalachian State University in Boone, North Carolina. He served seven years on the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County Planning Board, and has been active in various Early Childhood initiatives, the Infant Mortality Coalition, Healthy Carolinians, Assembly Terrace (HUD 202 independent living facility for seniors), Reynolda Rotary, Winston Salem First (church) as well as several Community Development Corporations, to include the hugely successful Goler Depot Street CDC in the downtown of Winston-Salem. Formerly the Chair of Leadership Winston-Salem, where he now serves as a board member, John is President and owner of Master Counsel and Associates, Inc., which offers real estate acquisition and small business development services. John is also a partner in Master Counsel Technologies, a software resale and consulting firm based in Clemmons, and Jimandi, Inc, a start-up business for waste up-cycling.
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